I would agree with this sentiment generally- however the Elves were too aggrieved as it's well know Caledor II was a bit of a jackass; an arrogant king who threw away an ally by shaving the ambassador and starting the war in the first place. The HE were far more bothered about the crown. As I've said above, Grudgelore states that the killing of the king and the taking of the crown was sufficient for King Starbreaker to call and end to the war- he saw that as recompense for the HE crimes and a sufficient prize to count the grudge ended.
Originally, you are correct, the Dwarfs would presumably have accepted a truthful apology or a like for like shaving but there was escalation from the beginning. Firstly, the Dark Elves attacked a Dwarven caravan, killing many Dwarfs. The Starbreaker sent a message to Lothern demanding an apology and recompense. Caledor II refused and so Starbreaker sent an envoy in the form of an ambassador to Lothern but the argument got out of hand the the envoy brandished an axe. Subsequently, instead of killing him, as was right under Elven law, Caledor sent him back shaved and the war began. The head of the King and Phoenix Crown may not have been suitable recompense for a shaved beard, but it was for 400 years of slaughter.



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I'm sorry, TheDungen, but while you usually argue things based on facts (which is why I usually find your posts interesting), in that particular case, you don't, there's no ground to support your opinion. The Elf King insulted the Dwarf King, the Dwarf king sent an ambassador (that's an impressive thing for a dwarf, trying this much), the ambassador got shaved, the result is 4 centuries of war and Caledor slain. For an insult and a shaven beard. A dwarf would have certainly settled for shaving Caledor's hair, if you ask me.
